Here are the TEN most important things girls and young women need to know about love. These tips will help you to face tough times ahead and come out stronger. ****MUST READ****
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You are enough. You should believe that you are capable , able , worthy and complete. Always know that there is nothing in you which needs to change to be loved. Do not tolerate men or women who tries to convince you otherwise, because someone who doesn’t see you worth should not earn a place in your life.
You can’t get respect unless you first give it. Model the respect you seek in a partner and you will more naturally be drawn to someone who will do the same.
Don’t lose yourself in a relationship. Falling in love can cause a woman to fall out of sync with who she is without her other half. Don’t let your own insecurity or your relationship stop you from living the life you deserve. You need your friends to lead a happy life- whether or not the relationship lasts.
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Listen closely to potential and current partners. Remaining perceptive can save you heartache. If you notice a person being unkind to someone else, don’t fool yourself into thinking it will be different with you.
Enter and stay in a relationship for the right reasons. True love is about affection, selflessness and generosity. If those qualities aren’t there, QUIT. Loneliness, reenacting the past, outside pressure or shared friends aren’t reasons to stay with someone.
Know what you want and stay true to that. Sometimes relationships look right on the surface, but feel wrong deep down. Understand what you want and stay true to that. Have a strong sense of self, not try to be what the other person wants her to be.
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Recognize heartbreak’s benefits. Heart breaks comes with benefits. It is therefore OK to feel pain, but a breakup can be a lesson in itself. How you handle your first breakup will shape your future relationships in a profound way. After a break-up ,learn what you are willing to accept, need and when and how to let go.
Never pursue love, it will arrive when it’s ready. Dogs run away when chased, and so do people. Everyone needs room to breathe.Running after someone who doesn’t want to be caught can damage your dignity—and hurt your chances of finding a partner. Acting prudently, though, can only make you more desirable.
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If you test someone, he may fail you. Don’t administer litmus tests as measures of a person’s love. Testing is a sign of one’s own fear and insecurity. Learn to trust others- always know that you were born with good instincts. That self-confidence will set her up for healthy relationships.
Most fairy tales were written by men. There’s no shame in enjoying a fairytale, but see these stories as opportunities to learn that real love is complicated, and comes in all different forms. Always know that you carries equal weight with your other half.
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